Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive

A one-week Workshop for Conscious Kink, Sacred Sexuality and Erotic Rituals

✨Have you heard about Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Kink or Neo Tantra and wonder what these all mean?

✨Is it time for you to confront your own erotic shadows and come to terms with parts of yourself you may have buried down?

✨Would you like to learn a set of hands-on erotic skills that will enhance your love life and sex life?

Then join us for this Deep Dive into the Erotic Mysteries​

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What is this workshop about?

The Erotic Mysteries are the mysterious and beautiful places where Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Kink and the Human Shadow overlap. What does this mean exactly?

In one sense, ​we’ll be exploring the esoteric mystery traditions. One common goal of many of these traditions is for each of us to fully embody our full potential as powerful erotic beings. In other words: one purpose in exploring The Erotic Mysteries is to help us see through all of the illusions and mental programming and to remember who we really are and fully step into our power.

This is not a ‘love and light’ workshop. Often to step into our full power we need to embrace the full filth and shadow of ourselves. As such there is a high kink content to this journey. In a practical sense, ​the Erotic Mysteries are about creating safe and conscious ritual spaces where we can take time to look within, explore what we find there, integrate those things we find and come out more self aware and empowered. 

With a strong emphasis on boundaries and consent, Conscious Kink gives us a diverse set of tools that allow us to expand our sexuality, be more confident with our selves and others, and become more empowered as self-aware erotic beings.

What will be covered in this workshop?

Conscious Kink is important to our exploration of the Erotic Mysteries as these tools allow us to explore any fetishes we might have in an empowering and nurturing way. We may explore what it’s like to engage in impact play (e.g. using physical pain). We may create scenes where we find out what it’s like to serve another person for a while and in turn to be served. Conscious Kink also allows for our darker erotic fantasies to be explored, and for this reason a large part of the workshop is geared towards learning common tools for asserting boundaries and ensuring healthy methods for gaining authentic consent. 

In this workshop we cover many of the tools of sacred sex and ​conscious kink​ ​in a ritualised content. The goal of ​exploring the Erotic Mysteries are to create powerful erotic states with spirituality and to create spaces of deep learning. We light a proverbial candle, turn inwards and face our own shadows that we have, up until now, suppressed. We embrace our own light and our own darkness in order to understand ourselves and explore together in service to each other. We use erotic techniques and guided journeying to reclaim those parts of ourselves otherwise lost. We explore our own inner worlds leading to places of power, self-love and ultimately greater self-knowledge.

In summary, we will focus on: 

• Consent, Desires & Boundaries 
• Clear Communication for negotiating touch 
• Impact Play
• D/s dynamics 
• Consensual non-consent exercises 
• Archetypes and how to use them in erotic spaces 
• Creating Erotic Rituals for oneself and others 
• Tools for Aftercare and Selfcare
• and more 

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Please note: This is an intensive ritual / deep dive and we expect to host many breakthrough moments for people on the journey of self-discovery. 

The Erotic Mysteries​ can be a set of powerful tools for healing trauma, but the movement towards healing is at your own pace. We provide the tools, techniques and a safer space. It’s important to note this isn’t therapy but many people find healing within these sets of practices.

Whilst we expect a high erotic content, all of your personal boundaries will be honoured and nurtured at all times. 

Who is this workshop for?

This is a general level workshop. Whilst we expect some practitioners to be there, this is not practitioner training. We are always excited to see who will join us for the training. It is important to create a diverse, interesting, and engaged group. You don’t need to be fully advanced with bodywork or sex-positive spaces. Nevertheless, we recommend being comfortable with the basics of consent and having had some exposure to sex-positive / kink spaces. If in doubt please get in touch so we can discuss options. 

This event is open to adults of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship formations. Exercises will not be paired/grouped by gender. If you wish to attend with your partner(s), please let us know. 

We will be having brief online interviews with people hoping to attend to make sure we both feel there is compatibility to work together. 

About Seani & the Team  

Seani (he/him) has been exploring and teaching erotic ritual techniques to clients, private groups, couples and workshops for over twenty years. An expert in this unique field, Seani received the prestigious industry award ‘Sex Worker of the Year’ in London in November 2015.

His work combines ritual techniques, Conscious Kink, Neo-Tantra, and Jungian Psychology. His work enables him to take his clients on profound journeys into their inner worlds and helping them find power, wisdom, love, and pleasure within themselves.

Sanya Alaya is a trauma informed body and mind therapist, specialized in holistic wellbeing and sexuality. She is trained and certified by the Sexological Bodywork Institute, Erotic School of Mysteries and Creative Consciousness Coaching Academy and created her unique way of working with clients through her EMPLEASUREMENT™ METHOD. A wholesome way to support healing, sensuality, and empowerment with and through the body.

Coming from a background of transforming her own traumas, chronic pain and autoimmune disease into a fulfilled life of love, consciousness and pleasure, she now facilitates trauma informed workshops and 1:1 sessions, using techniques and tools from Tantra, Tao, Shadow Work, Conscious Kink, Tantra Massage, Chi Nei Tsang, Dearmouring, Breathwork and Meditation.

Her heart mission is to empower her clients to embody their sensuality, playfulness and wild self expression, love themselves, unravel conditioning and to be fully and unapologetically who they truly are.

To read more about her, follow these links:
www.sanyaalaya.com
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Cosima (she/her) is an experienced, amazing event & workshop organiser. She loves creating and holding spaces where people can go on deep journeys, play and have fun. Since 2016, she has been spreading the word of radical self-love, gratitude and sex-positivity on her blog Cusilife to rebel against the ideals of beauty, body image, love and life choices. Cosima is trained in Tantra, Consent & Conscious Kink. She is based in Berlin, where she is involved in the sex-positive scene and creates workshops, parties and other events. She is polyamorous and pansexual.

The rest of the Team will be announced soon. 

If you have any questions from logistics to payment to content about the workshop, email Cosima.

We look forward to welcoming you.